Interracial Dating

Shoh, it has been ages since I have actually blogged, how embarrassing!!! Well, I have met someone, a special “K”, are we dating? I am not so sure yet. We meet up on a regular basis and we share a lot, he even said “I LOVE YOU”, yet he has not yet asked me out, I have asked him, still waiting for the “yes”. I like him and I think the feeling is mutual, I just smell commitment issues.

He is Indian, and obviously I am not, this was a huge mind-set for me to overcome, but the respect from him made this so much more easy, is the public in RSA ready for it, I think so.

Let’s see how this pans out and how the interracial bond grows and evolves as life in the GAY fast lane…

 

 

Growth 2012

That time again, magic fingers to the notebook keys, “GROWTH”…

Overall Growth

So much has happened in this time I haven’t blogged.  I grew, older, wiser, bigger and better. I moved into a bigger place, moved up a step in my career and met new people, got a new flatmate (he is a blog post alone, old Johanna) and deleted some old friends I knew for years.

Work Growth

Moved from IT Engineer to Sales (Account Manager), what a new challenge and I like it. My new team is excellent and they have spunk. We also got a new Divisional Manager which makes things happen, bonus I guess. This is my short blog regarding work.

Personal Growth

Men came and went, no pun intended, but no one really stuck around, luckily there is some potential out there…  Which made me to believe it is not a futile attempt in finding that special person to call your own. I will have to keep my peeps updated regarding this palava…

So to close this blog in a nutshell, we all have to grow, it is the way you choose to grow that makes you a survivor in “Life in the GAY FAST LANE”.

Lee B

xoxo

Gay man and his BFF

In the world of technology and web surfing it is so easy to find new friends, or is it really? In the life of a gay man so called friends come and go… Today, best friends, and 4 years down the line, that sharp pain in the back as the knife gets turned and turn and once more turned. Other so called BFF move on as priorities change, from drinking games and mischief with you to drinking games with their lovers. But where does one draw the line of friendship, should good friends be able to tell each other if they need help, example “buddy you are losing the plot here, I suggest you go see a psychologist”. Does that make you a bad person for saying that? Anyhow, I got my fingers now recently burnt with a friend of 4 years, drugs, betrayal and lies was the end all for me. That is why I, a man living "live in the GAY fast lane” moved on and found other happiness…

Lovers, ex’es and their issues…

Once again we put pen to paper, or rather in a blogger’s case, French tips to the keyboard to tell another story. Today I blog about ex-lovers… I had to once again urge myself not to lose my temper as a guy I dated called, “sorry, I made a mistake and want you back”, we were together 4 years… Biting on my teeth with the voice in my head telling me “A lady only screams when it slips out” I listened to his plea and apology, but after 4 years and separated for 2, does he really think I will contemplate to go back, NEVER.
I do believe in second chances but he had 3 already, and like I always say “for every issue, there’s a tissue”, well he has used a box since I have known him… LOL… I just wished him all the luck he deserves, I will not say more on my opinion of the above mentioned statement but ended the conversation civil.

He is after all a guy living “life in the GAY fast lane”

Emotions…

This is a man, virile, does he know about crying? No, the man is a beast, hunter. Hunters are men, hunting the beast. This is the man, virile, does he know about sharing? No, only sissies are sharing, playing solo. Playing solo are for men, playing against the sissies. This is the man, virile, does he know about living? Yes, this is the man, virile, living a “life in the GAY fast lane”
Is this a man, or is this a beast? What are emotions to gay men? Are we in touch with it? Can you identify with some? “Just turn around and pass out after you had your turn 1st” Or is there actually more to you? Are you the man, virile, living “life in the GAY fast lane?”

Gay men and electricity

Here in our humble abode the electricity went off. There was nothing else but frenzy in the house. My housemates Dolly D and Dolly K running around, what to do, what to do... Dolly D being himself, cursing our government and Dolly K following along, like shepherd and sheep. Dolly L (me) always calm composed and relaxed... The late lunch had to get finished and we were stuck without means to do so. Thank goodness to take away shops… These are housemates and men that live “life in the GAY fast lane”

My 1st Blog

This will be the life story of a gay guy that experiences life, sometimes with a kick in the rubber parts, but always living it to the fullest and has seen places, been places, and make himself known but also younger... A guy that never looks for trouble, but sometimes it just walks in at the front or office door..